Ok, so it’s a big question.
Because there are loads of elements that make a person a super-genius.
But there’s one thing that is guaranteed to stop you from becoming brilliant.
That one thing is the inability to take feedback.
Feedback as in brutal feedback
Feedback as in things you don’t want to hear.
Feedback as in ‘things that make you feel like crap’.
Super-genius is built on such crappy moments
The stars in any field are those that shut up when feedback is being given.
They don’t defend themselves. They just listen. They take notes. They then sit back and do an analysis of what’s being said.
They feel crappy just like you do when you’re being criticised. 🙁
But super-geniuses are super, because they realise that the people giving the feedback aren’t petty.
That the feedback is actually a mechanism to help the genius go up to another level.
So super-geniuses tend take the feedback.
Then they do something that most people don’t.
They correct their actions.
And they seek more feedback.
But the average-Joe is average because they live in ‘testimonial’ land.
They want people to say nice things about them.
They’re not really interested in feedback.
They’re not really interested in hearing stuff that makes them feel like crap.
And even if they do listen—which they almost never do—they never implement the self-corrective measures.
And so they stay where they are.
Stuck. Unsure. Disheartened. Unwilling to take the brutal feedback.
Brutal feedback is um, brutal.
If you want to become a super-genius, you can’t duck, or weave.
Take the punch. And then self-correct.